[deploy/helm] helm upgrade does not upgrade resources

[GKTheOne]

Helm Chart Version

1.3.1

What step the error happened?

Upgrading the Platform or Helm Chart

Relevant information

After finally getting the resources and probe failure thresholds correct enough that helm finished the upgrade deployment, I kubectl rollout restarted the stateful sets so the new pods would pick up the new env config.
Turns out that the airbyte-minio statefulset is the old-old version (chart 0.122.1), this upgrade was from chart 0.376.0 to 1.3.1.
We suspect it is because of the helm.sh/hook annotation only being pre-install
We also think that this hook value is causing the role/rolebinding issue (#42859) because the updated resources are not being applied in an upgrade scenario.

Relevant log output

[marcosmarxm]

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