Difficult to see updates made outside of workbench, especially for desktop app

[tbantle22]

We have a user that is using Datagrip to drop a table and make other changes, and then views the changes in the workbench. The table does get removed from the Tables dropdown automatically (you may have to click around). But the WORKING changes commit in the commit log or the Create commit button do not show up until you manually refresh the page (not possible in the desktop app).

There are two things we need here:

1. A way to refresh the desktop app (the reset connection button should maybe also refresh the page?)
2. Find a better solution for automatically updating stale data

[tbantle22]

Just merged a PR that makes sure the commit log is automatically refreshed when you click on that tab. It also fixes this Refresh connection button so that it refetches all active queries and ensures that workbench data is up-to-date with your database