[CLIENT-2551] Add Python 3.12 support

[juliannguyen4]

Description

Many of the changes were cherry-picked / adopted from the v14-backport branch

Testing Python 3.12 in pipeline

PR Pre-merge tests: https://github.com/aerospike/aerospike-client-python/actions/runs/7933902194
Build wheels: https://github.com/aerospike/aerospike-client-python/actions/runs/7923859610
Test-server-rc: https://github.com/aerospike/aerospike-client-python/actions/runs/7933902714
Stage tests: https://github.com/aerospike/aerospike-client-python/actions/runs/7923867619

Extra changes

• Trigger tests.yml for pushes and PRs to dev and v*-backport branches
• Add option to test server RC on manual run of tests.yml
• Remove Python 3.7 from .build.yml (QE cat 2 tests)
• Allow dev-workflow-p1.yml to be run manually
• Add option to skip build-wheels tests when running dev-workflow-p1.yml manually
• Remove psutil from tests which was causing QE tests to not run

TODO: make guide on how to add support for new python versions in CI/CD pipeline

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

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[justinlee-aerospike]

changes look good