chore(cli): watch is fully configurable from CLI

[kaizencc]

Related to #32473. This PR fixes it, but is not targeting main.

This PR is meant to pull out a specific feature that still depends on #32760. We are adding include and exclude options to deploy and watch. watch.include/exclude matches 1-1 with what is expected out of cdk.json today, so those properties end up merged together in the same Settings object. There are some legacy considerations, like cdk.json allows a single string instead of a string array, but that does not make sense for the CLI as those are automatically converted to arrays.

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[mrgrain]

Pretty sure we can just get that from the assembly itself.

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