🚨 update pre-commit, lockfile, and adjust for Qiskit 1.3

[burgholzer]

Description

This PR combines a couple of updates for the project configuration that are long overdue.

Checklist:

• The pull request only contains commits that are related to it.
• I have added appropriate tests and documentation.
• I have made sure that all CI jobs on GitHub pass.
• The pull request introduces no new warnings and follows the project's style guidelines.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.7%. Comparing base (c9b2f79) to head (7fa5231).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   90.6%   90.7%   +0.1%     
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  Files         93      93             
  Lines      10803   10763     -40     
  Branches    1832    1830      -2     
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- Hits        9789    9772     -17     
+ Misses      1014     991     -23     

Flag	Coverage Δ
cpp	90.5% <ø> (+0.1%)	⬆️
python	96.0% <ø> (ø)

see 20 files with indirect coverage changes